Monday, January 24, 2011

To Tell or Not to Tell

I wonder if other widows/widowers struggle like i do to let people know that my husband died. People in my office know because i had been with that job only 4 months when it happened. However people that have started working there after his passing don't know. I wonder if I should tell them to save them the embarassment and me the awkwardness of them assuming that i have a husband since they know I have kids.
It's just awkward for me if someone makes a general comment about spouses or husbands and I sit there quietly and not say anything.

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